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Ludovic's avatar

Great post. One area where I think much of the modern right is misguided is its high esteem for the nuclear family. I don’t think nuclear families are optimal at all; large, extended kinship networks seem far closer to what humans evolved for.

In my view, this is part of why modern marriage struggles so much. Sustaining a nuclear family places an enormous burden on two isolated adults, and that load is often simply too heavy. The idealisation of the 1950s, arguably the high point of the nuclear family model ends up being quite detrimental when treated as a timeless norm rather than a historical anomaly.

I also think prioritising the nuclear family has contributed to the broader atomisation of society, which shows up today in widespread loneliness and social fragmentation. I’m planning to write more on this, including how the dominance of the nuclear family may have unintentionally contributed to the rise of modern feminism.

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I’m not familiar with the acronym WEIRD. I looked it up and found: Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic. Is this what you mean?

Very interesting essay with some very novel ideas, something rare and fascinating unlike most of the dreck and sloppy nonsense that floods my daily feed on this platform. This article along with a few other writers might just keep me from abandoning this platform. You got your points across very well and if you felt this was disorganized, then please do it again!

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